Fear… this word is well known around the world. It is a powerful word that is defined in many ways by each individual person. If I were to ask you what you feared that answer would be unique to you. Yet, it can have the same effect on each of us. IT CAN STOP US IN OUR TRACKS!
Fear is meant to have a positive purpose in our lives. That purpose is to guide us away from ACTUAL THREATS. But humanity has developed illusional fears that can hinder our self-growth and work against us.
Let’s go through the two different types of fear. The first type is good, logical fear. The other type is negative, illusional fear. Logical fear keeps us from doing things like running off a cliff, sticking our arms in the mouth of hungry shark, or licking an electric fence (hopefully lol). This is good and healthy. Please DO let your logical fear help guide you! The logical fear keeps us safe from REAL THREATS.
There is also a negative fear which is based off illusion. This type of fear is one WE DO NOT want to guide us. Illusional fears would be things like:
-I am not good enough
-I am not talented enough
-I am not capable enough
-I am worthless
-I am unfixable
-I am too messed up
-I am not strong enough
-I am never going to do it… so, WHY TRY?
You also have the WHAT IF fears like:
-What if I fail
-What if I cannot do it
-What if I mess up
-What if I look silly
-What if I am wrong
-What if… what if… what if….
These fears can feel VERY REAL, but they are simply illusions that stem from our broken self-esteems. We take on these thoughts and claim them as our own and we believe them overtime. They FEEL like reality, but they ARE NOT!! They are lies that try to trap us and hold us captive from becoming our best self.
These are illusions!! Do you SEE the actual fear FOR SURE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU? Is it an ACTUAL THREAT? Or it is just a possibility and something that is just simply scary to your self-esteem? If there is a volcano erupting unexpectedly in front of you and you must run so you do not get harmed… that is a logical and good fear to have. But if you fear failure… that is an illusional fear. The way I see it… there is NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE!! There are only experiences we learn from to steer us in a more effective direction! Those that do not make it did not fail… they just GAVE UP BEFORE THEY FOUND THEIR SUCCESS!
NO ONE that stands at the peak success has climbed to that height without facing TEMPORARY FAILURES!! Everyone must learn and grow and become someone that is capable of embodying success. It takes trial and error. It takes consistency and FIGHTING YOUR FEARS until you BECOME A CHAMPION OVER YOUR FEARS!!!
You can become a champion!! Here are some steps you can take to START CONQUERING YOUR FEARS:
I challenge you to FIGHT TO BECOME YOUR BEST YOU!! FIGHT YOUR ILLUSIONAL FEARS AND BECOME AN OVERCOMER!!
Be blessed ALWAYS!
-Lauren Nichole Roberts
Challenges… this is a word EVERYONE understands in this life! Everyone must face them throughout their lifetime. THERE IS NO WAY WE CAN COMPLETELY AVOID CHALLENGES IN THIS LIFE! THEY ARE A PART OF LIFE! If I were to take a survey and ask individuals if they feel negative or positive toward this word, most will say NEGATIVE. But what if we could start a revolution amongst EVERYONE? What if we could change our perspective to start seeing challenges as a positive opportunity? What would happen?
Like anyone else, my life has not been short of challenges. Throughout most of my life, I not only hated challenges, but I also feared them. Sometimes I would do everything I could to avoid a challenge, even if that meant not trying something or going somewhere I wanted to go. However, over the past 10+ years as a network marketer, I was forced out of this mindset. I had no choice but to face challenge after challenge, and I could not walk away from them. I had no choice but to face them head-on because there was no way I was going to leave my marketing family to face them alone.
At first, I hated each challenge that arose. I looked at them as inconveniences. But over time I learned to appreciate them because I saw myself transform through them. I saw myself become stronger, smarter, better through each challenge that I overcame.
So, I ask you… do you want to be like most of the world that fear a challenge or hardship and allow those moments to hold them back, or do you want to be a champion who learns to embrace each challenge? Do you want to use the UNAVOIDABLE challenges that arise to propel you to your best self or let them tear you down? Challenges are going to arise… I choose to embrace them, and I encourage you to do the same!
Next time you see a challenge coming your way, face it head-on and tell yourself from the moment that challenge hits you that you are going to use this challenge to make you better. Then keep yourself focused on that mindset. Tell yourself, "I have to face it, so I am going to use it to empower me!! I will NOT let this challenge hinder me!! Instead, I will make this challenge EMPOWER ME!!" You can learn from each challenge that arises so that you will become more equipped for the next challenge! You can look at each challenge as a learning opportunity. Look at your life as an obstacle course that ends with you becoming the CHAMPION OF YOUR LIFE!!
We can’t control our lives! As a matter of fact, most of our lives are completely out of our control, but that does NOT make us helpless. We can’t control the results of our circumstances, but we can control how we deal with them. We can control how we feel about them and how we think through these moments. We can control our character development!
BECOME EMPOWERED, BECOME BETTER, BECOME STRONGER THROUGH EACH CHALLENGE TO BECOME A BETTER YOU!!! YOU CAN DO THIS!! LET’S START THIS REVOLUTION TOGETHER!!!
Be blessed ALWAYS!
-Lauren Nichole Roberts