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Discover the Diamond Within You!

GROWING UP I NEVER FIT IN. I WAS DIFFERENT. I REMEMBER CRYING NIGHT AFTER NIGHT BECAUSE I KNEW I DID NOT FIT IN AND AS A RESULT I GOT PICKED ON A LOT. I REMEMBER FEELING TORN. I WANTED PEOPLE TO STOP PICKING ON ME BUT AT THE SAME TIME I ENJOYED BEING MYSELF. I HAD TO CHOOSE ONE. WHAT WOULD I DECIDE?

I CHOSE TO KEEP BEING MYSELF AND I AM GLAD I DID BECAUSE IT TURNS OUT NORMAL IS NOT A GREAT THING IN THIS WORLD. WHAT IS NORMAL? WHEN YOU LOOK AROUND IN TODAY’S WORLD YOU SEE A LOT OF SUFFERING IN MANY FORMS AND SIZES. JUST THINK ABOUT 5 PEOPLE YOU KNOW. LOOK AT ALL THE HURT AROUND AND PAIN THAT SURROUNDS ALL OF US IN THIS LIFE.

WHEN YOU WALK THROUGH THE MALL OR DOWN THE STREET NEXT TIME TAKE A MOMENT TO LOOK AT OTHERS AROUND YOU. WATCH THEIR FACES. I HARDLY SEE A SMILE ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS AND IF I DO IT IS A FORCED SMILE BY A SERVICE PERSON. SOMETIMES I DO SEE SOMEONE ELSE THAT HAS A SMILE THAT RADIATES WITH JOY. WHEN I DO SEE A REAL SMILE, IT STANDS OUT TO ME.

EVERY TIME I TURN ON THE NEWS, I SEE ANOTHER SHOOTING OR ANOTHER SUICIDE OR HATE CRIME. IT IS HEART-BREAKING. NORMAL IS NOT WHAT I WANT TO BE. I HAVE DECIDED TO DEDICATE MY LIFE TO BECOME EVERYTHING MY CREATOR CREATED ME TO BE AND I DESIRE TO DO MY PART TO EXTEND THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE ACQUIRED WITH OTHERS AROUND THE WORLD.

THERE IS A ROAD MAP TO BECOMING OUR FULL POTENTIAL!! WE CAN BECOME OUR BEST!! WE CAN EXCEL BEYOND THE NORMALITY OF LIFE AND SOAR WITH THE EAGLES!!!

How to Discover your inner best Self!

The definition of success is unique to each individual. But there are specific ingredients to success no matter the form it takes. Are you ready to achieve your best you and reach your ultimate peak of personal success? If your answer is yes, then I have three things I want to share with you.

Step 1. Keep in mind that success is a journey.

Success is not a moment or an end result it is every single step that brought you to that very moment. Success is a combination of experiences, both good and hard that helped develop the qualities that are required to reach and maintain success.

So be ready to embrace every moment in your journey! Be ready to stare temporary failures in the face without turning away. Be ready to cease those moments of joy and savor those moments. Be ready for anything because anything can happen!

My journey in success is not over yet. I will be on this path for the rest of my life. I am not going to lie, it has been like a roller coaster most of the time with its peaks high and it valleys low. But I have learned overtime to just embrace every moment equally and to open my mind to learn from every circumstance. I always ask myself "what can I learn from this?". You can do this to. Open your eyes and watch closely, embracing each moment along the way and buckle up, because it is going to get bumpy. :)

Step 2. Don't let your self-esteem be based off where you are at. Focus on your potential!

Every single person in this world that I have met has suffered hurts or injuries from others. Unfortunately, this is just part of life. As we journey through life and are exposed to hurt more and more it impacts our self-esteem, self-worth and belief in ourselves overtime. These injuries create an insecure need for self-validation.

People get validation in countless ways. Everyone is different in how they try to fill those holes of hurt in their own life. Some people feel better about themselves when they have nice things like a nice vehicle or a great wardrobe. Others gain self-validation through the eyes of their peers or loved ones. Some gain self-validation on their degree of what this world claims as success. But I want to ask you a question. Are these things really the definition of true success or are these things just side-effects of success?

In my journey to success I did at one time look at these type of things as success but then I was asked a question "If this is success then why do the rich and famous commit suicide?". That is a valid question. I had never thought of this before. But it does happen. There are people that had everything they could ever want and much more, but still they lost the will to live.

Success is not the results we yield, it is who we become. It is the wisdom we acquire. It is the knowledge we gain. When we learn to develop an elite way of thinking and learn self-discipline, correct focus and vision and become secure in our-selves we can do anything! We would become unstoppable.

Why do people quit before they make it to the finish line??? Because it is too painful to face temporary failure. We look at ourselves as a failure or think we can't do it and reject the possibility that maybe we really can. Why? Because our self-esteem can't handle it!!

But we need to throw that out of the window and never look back. We need to stop seeing our value as our temporary results and realize if we can continue in this journey to learn to become our full potential we will become someone we never imagined! We need to stop finding value in temporary moments and just come to the conclusion you are valuable because of what you are capable of!! You are valuable because you have something within you that is just waiting to break free! We all have tremendous capability in life that we cannot even begin to comprehend.

Do you think Michael Jordan really understood who he would become when he was a kid practicing? Do you think Albert Einstein really knew exactly what he was capable of?? The answer is no!! They just kept going no matter what and then one day they realized their potential.

Can you imagine how Albert felt when he failed over and over again?? It had to really wear on his mind. Can you imagine how it would feel to face failure and failure? But if he would not have kept going, we would not have electricity!! The world had no idea what it was missing but he launched an entire world forward! He changed the WORLD!

We have no idea our potential. In order to find out you have to fight past the pain and torment you are going to have to face in your journey. You have to stop gaging your self worth off temporary moments. You have to challenge yourself, force yourself to push forward no matter what! Stop limiting yourself and start empowering yourself!! Get in control of your mind. That is a vital step in you reaching your full potential.

Step 3. Don't EVER give up!

Once you know the path you are on the right path for you, then embrace and hold on tight to that path. When challenges or hard times come focus and remind yourself this is your path and don't let anything stop you. Be like Rocky. Every time life hits you and you fall down, stand right back up and throw a punch back. Decide that quitting is not an option and you will come out as the champion!

Most people never reach their peak of personal success because of reason, they STOP! They give up! But if you commit and decide you won't stop, no matter what you have already won the race! The finish line is there. It is within your future as long as you just keep moving forward. So make a commitment right now to NEVER QUIT!

If you can apply these 3 tips, you will make it to your full potential in your future. There are many aspects to success but these components are the three most important aspects and without committing to these three steps you risk not getting to your peak. Ask yourself, am I ready? Am I willing to commit? Am I willing to suffer the cure to my full potential? If you said yes, congratulations! I am excited to walk with you in your journey to ultimate success!

Why did I start this blog?

I believe success becomes empty if you do not share it with others. I have found so much more fulfillment in my success because I share the blessings of success with others. To inspire someone else and see them blossom into someone they never dreamed is a blessing beyond words. My hearts desire is to share the components of true success with the world in any way I can.

Become your best you by getting the right mindset!

keep in mind that Life is a Learning Journey!

Along the way life presents us with hardships, hurts, failures, discouragements, disappointments and countless obstacles. Success is when you learn to navigate around these obstacles and use each failure or hardship as a step up to your next level in your journey of success.

When you start viewing each moment as an opportunity to learn to become a better you, nothing can stop you. Getting the right mindset is vital to achieving the best you. There are basic foundational principles you can apply in your daily life to start living your full potential one moment to the next.

Decide to Take your first steps to your Ultimate success now!

The Power of Positivity!

Positivity boosts success!

One of my biggest allies in my journey of success has been my new found positivity. Dwelling on positive things instead of negative things helped support me in both good and hard times.

You can learn more about how I was able to reprogram my mind to be a positive support to me in my journey from this video.